Wednesday, March 2, 2011

An Article from Homecoming 2010


WADE, Miss. -- For graduates of the Home of Grace rehabilitation center, the program's yearly homecoming ceremony is more than a chance for fellowship. It's a chance to celebrate transformations and encourage recovering addicts.
Home of Grace, founded in 1965 and headed by the Rev. Billy and Shellene Barton, offers a Christian faith-based program to help addicts overcome their drug and alcohol problems through 90-day programs.
The women's home in Gautier and the men's home in Vancleave graduate hundreds of people each year.
Alumni gathered Saturday at Wade Baptist Church to testify about how the program led them to God and changed their lives.
"This event is a good way to remember everything," said Mark Brantley, a Troy, Ala., resident who graduated from the program in April 2005. "We remember what we've done in the past and that there is a place to get help.
A lot of our reminiscing is not positive, but I want to remember it all and use it so I won't go back."
Going back, Brantley said, would mean using powder cocaine, crack cocaine and methamphetamine, his drug of choice.
It would mean "lying, cheating, stealing and manipulating my family," he said.
For Brantley, who began experimenting with drugs when he was 15 and can't remember most of his 30s, the Home of Grace has given him more than freedom from his addictions, it has given him joy.
"Today, I am happy," he said. "Not only am I happy, but I have joy in my life. And it's all about Jesus. Now my parents are actually proud of me for a change."
During Saturday's ceremony, Home of Grace leadership thanked three "miracle makers" who have supported the program.
Charles and Margaret Cooper, of WOSM-FM, were honored for time spent advocating the center through interviews with the Bill Barton, the program's founder and Billy Barton's father. Bill Barton died in 2008.
William "Dub" Herring was honored for more than 30 years of help through serving on the Home of Grace's board of directors and countless other committees.
Guest speaker the Rev. Fred Wolfe, of Luke 4:18 Fellowship in Mobile, told attendees that God "has his hand on" the Home of Grace for its work.
"You know how Jesus can heal a broken heart ... and set the captives free," he told attendees.
Saturday's ceremony was themed "Celebrate Freedom," and 2009 graduate Miller Baugh of Gulfport said she certainly feels freed.
Having unsuccessfully been through two rehabilitation programs for her addiction to pain-killers, she was finally ordered to the Home of Grace by drug court.
"The missing ingredient was God," she said. "I just can't explain how sacred the Home of Grace is. It changed me. I hope people can see the light in me now."

Thursday, February 24, 2011

"Dear 18 year old me" Written by an Alumni

Dear 18 year old me,Aaron. Oh, Aaron. If I didn't know your future, I would take this time to scream warnings at the top of my lungs, plead with you to listen to the voices of reason surrounding, and beg you to turn away from the sounds of death and destruction that swallows the space in your ears. But I know, so I will breathe. You should know though, that while I would not change a thing about what is about to transpire in your life the next eight years or so, I am now aware that you are about to inflict pain on a lot of people. Friends. Family. Acquaintances. And strangers. None of which are deserving. It's so easy for people to say they "wouldn't change a thing" or "I wouldn't be where I am today if it weren't for...", but, what about the damage, The collateral damage you're going to cause? I'm fussing. I digress.You are about to embark on a despicable journey. You will embody the definition of debauchery. So many people will be hurt. Some physically, some emotionally. All unsolicited. You are going to lose so much. So many of the friends that you cherish right now will die.Craig, your best friend, is going to get into a head on collision and die. He will be intoxicated on the drugs that you sold him at the time of his death. This will torment you for years to come. Timothy will also die. Dwayne will die. Butch will overdose, and die. Kendall is going to commit suicide in the parking lot at his mothers bar. She will be the one to find him. Mike will also kill himself. So many more people you know will die. Horrible things are going to happen. Two of your friends are going to murder someone during a fight. A fight that by the Grace of God (you'll understand this later) you weren't a part of. One will do 7 years in prison, while the other gets life behind bars. And a family will mourn the death of their teenager forever. Two more of your close friends will be arrested and convicted for the overdose death of Timothy. They will go away for quite a while. You will witness acts of violence with your eyes that no man should ever see. This will change you forever. You will pump countless amounts of poison into Baton Rouge. Poison in the form of narcotics. But I bet you already suspect that that's where your life is headed. Right now, you feel bulletproof. You've already been run over by a truck, shot at, been in countless physical altercations, and none of this has slowed you down. You are stacking money... fast, untaxed, and blood-riddled money. You'll make drug runs to Mexico, bringing back colorfully packaged death to sell to your peers. You'll take part in the actual manufacturing of narcotics, affecting countless people that you will never even lay eyes on. Surely, there will be some that will suffer from your hand, or worse, and you will never even know the role that you played. But what you will know, is that the "sex drugs and rocknroll" will all be crashing down on you at some point. There is going to be years and years of a slow, downward spiral. You are going to slowly crawl onto the other side of the fence. Your partying, your fast lifestyle, it's going to shift. It's going to bite you.All throughout this period, great people in your life will attempt to save you, and throw you undeserving lifelines. They will attempt to motivate you with your potential. Take you to church. Do anything in their power to offer you alternatives to your choices. You will refuse. You're going to hear Gods word, and actually be touched by his tangible Spirit, YET you're going to ignore it, and go back to the streets. This is where your life changes drastically. This is when you become Aaron, the full blown junkie. You are going to begin a journey to near death in the form of intravenous drug use. And it's going to be ugly. Robbing people, burglarizing homes, stealing from your family, even stealing from your own nephew. (I'm going to breathe again, instead of throwing expletives at you aggressively right now) You're going to be caught doing criminal activity, and be sent to East Baton Rouge Parish Prison. You will then be sent to a place that will save your life. The Home of Grace. How appropriate. That will be the place that you find God, again, and this time you will not refuse. This is when you learn about that aforementioned Grace thing. Mercy poured out. Guilt melted away. It's gorgeous. And its forever. Your struggles won't completely end there, but you will never lose sight of who you are and what God has called you to be. Don't I wish your struggles end there. But by that time, you will be able to withstand anything. On a brighter note, you will do some amazing things! You will meet and befriend some amazing people. Life long friends. You will shed some old friendships, while rekindling others. You will grow close to people that you are beginning to vigorously push away. Mom. Dad. & Your brother.You will see God move in peoples lives in ways that you would laugh at in disbelief if I told you now. I'll save these gems for you as a surprise. Your heart, it will break. And it will mend. And it will break again. And it will be ok. You are going to be prepared for loss, and for suffering. And your life will go on. You will lose another friend. A friend that never played with fire. A friend that never tempted fate. A friend deserving of a million lifetimes. A friend named Jordan. You won't understand why this isn't such a tragedy until you get to God, and His Word. So don't worry, Jordans story will touch the masses, and your faith in his salvation will soothe your broken heart. God is going to work through you to help others. Did you hear me: HELP others! I know, it's weird. You'll be addicted to this as well. And that will be ok. It will be a testimony of what God can do to and with people, people from all walks of life. Even people that once hurt people. You know how you think you're this big bad dope dealer right now? Well, You will actually one day be employed at a chemical dependency treatment center, helping others to get out of their addictions and work towards a new positive way of life. Crazy, right?! A lot of surreal things like that are going to occur in your late 20's. Bask in them. You're going to get plugged in at a great church, and actually work for them at some point, helping victims of violence at their inner city ministry! Victims of violence?! I know, I know. Wow. "for such a time as this"...you'll understand the reference later on. You will be misunderstood by a lot of the "religious". Don't worry about all that. You focus on you, and your walk with God, and let the chips fall where they may. Trust me. This too will be ok. And don't be freaked out by all this "God-talk". It won't be strange to you eventually.There is so many questions I have for the 40 year old "us". Who will I marry? How many kids? What city is God going to have me doing His social work? Are my parents still around? Is Nathan Robert a pastor at his own gigantic church yet? And things of the like. But what I can tell you (and me) is that the troubles of today are sufficient, and the tomorrows will come, and you will deal with the days as they jump on your back. And it will all be ok. Most will glimmer, some will burn. But, all will count. Never forget that. Oh, and one last thing, I love you. I do! You don't love yourself right now. You don't even believe anyone can truly love you. But they do. You'll see. I Promise. You will be Found. To God be the Glory.Ps- that pesky writers block: it comes and goes. Don't panic. It ALWAYS comes back a little stronger.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Homecoming 2011

Come and celebrate what the Lord has done in your life! You never know who may need to hear your story. Look forward to seeing you there. God Bless

Thursday, January 20, 2011

MIKE DURST WITH THE KING….

Mike was in my class.. I have never met a more gentle, kind person with such a beautiful meek spirit. I will miss him.. but you're right I will see him again.. with the KING..Thank you Lord for crossing our paths.


Fred Michael Durst Obituary: View Fred Durst's Obituary by Mobile Register

Saturday, November 20, 2010

A Good Man Remembered

Many of you made great comments regarding the 2010 August Newsletter feature (http://www.homeofgrace.org/newsletter/archive/Aug_2010.pdf). This article was written about David Bolton. On Fri afternoon, David went on to be with the Lord. David’s modesty would not allow him to boast in the miracles that were his life, and recovery was just one of many. Certainly the miracles jewels were not found in even his conquering of addiction, but rather laid in the strong bonds of relationships within his family.

On Monday Nov 22nd, Wilson Avenue Baptist Church will hold a memorial service. Visitation will begin at 2p and the service at 4p. The family would like to invite everyone to help celebrate this life dedicated to Christ.

On Tuesday Nov 23rd, the Home of Grace will host a memorial service at the Men’s Home Chapel beginning at 2p. This service is open to everyone and will celebrate the life David found while at the Home.

For more information on either of these services, please contact Steve Broussard at 228-382-4242 or by email at gbpuntr@yahoo.com.

Please feel free to distribute this email.

Friday, July 16, 2010

The Comforts of Home Ministry

To Whom Much if Given , Much is Required

WANTED: Volunteers to form a fundraising chapter for
The Home of Grace called " The Comforts of Home Ministry"
Our first project will be the updating of the men's cottages
in Van Cleave, Ms.

Items Needed:

160 Twin Mattresses and Mattress covers
20 Microwaves
20 Refrigerators
20 Shower Curtains and Hook sets
20 Shower mats
20 Exterior mats
20 Sets of Blinds
20 Ceiling Fans w/ light kits
25 Gallons of white / eggshell based/ paint
Paint brushes and paint roller sets

IF INTERESTED IN THIS FUNDRAISING MINISTRY , PLEASE CONTACT ON OF THE FOLLOWING:

Dottie Slay : dpslay@gmail.com : 205 -277-9100

Phillip Slay : jphillipslay@gamil.com

Patton Slay : pattonslay@yahoo.com

WE NEED YOUR HELP..TO ASSIST OTHERS..IN TRANSFORMING LIVES THU JESUS CHRIST....


Saturday, June 26, 2010

Rusty Thompson

I wanted to pass this info along. I was able to set up an email account thru corrlink for Rusty .
Anybody wishing to email him should follow these steps..
Pass this along.. I know he wants mark brantly and pops to have this info...

1st write rusty at this address and give him YOUR email address.

OAKLEY THOMPSON
08205043
FCI OAKDALE
PO BX 5000
OAKDALE, LA. 71463

2nd log on to corrlinks.com & create a user acount.
3rd check corrlinks.com for your confirmation # and account access

Its pretty simple ..... If you need help setting this up let me know.....